For David

Copyright 2008 Clayton Kinnelon Greiman

swimrdie@gmail.com

 

 

May 27th, 2008

 

Today, I read a poem in which you stated that you were too emotionally troubled to enter into a new relationship; my response was written a long time ago.  I never included it as a part of this compilation, because I thought you would take it as as a personal attack.  Instead, view it as an acceptance, and love, of all that you are.       

 

The Cold Burn

 

Manic depressive,

Like trying to love 

Fire frozen to ice or

Ice consumed by fire. 

  

Reach out my hands,

Wanting warmth, getting cold,

Embracing cold, and getting warmth.

 

My husband, my life,

How I need you this night.

 

     David, it's been five years since we last had a conversation with one another; I imagine that you have altered as much as I.  Therefore, I have no point of reference when you write that you are too emotionally troubled for a relationship.  I know when we were together, you were an undiagnosed manic depressive; certainly, it didn't make a relationship easy, but it didn't mean it was impossible.  I loved you despite the mood swings and the panic attacks.  That being said, it was much more difficult for you to love me, with my D.I.D.  Your problems paled in comparison with my own.  

       There was a point when I recovered; yet, you stated that I was incapable of ever being well.  It seems as though now you have reached the same conclusion in regards to your own mental health.  You want to believe I'm a monster who is unworthy of being loved; that's all well and good, but I won't allow you to give up on yourself.  David, every human being, no matter their circumstances or handicaps, holds the innate hope of being loved.  I realize you may be going through a rough time, but don't say "I'm too emotionally troubled to be in a relationship." It's like waking up each morning, and saying, "I'm too tired to get out of bed, so I won't bother with the effort".  Soon, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

      I'm not telling you to go out and actively seek a relationship, but if one comes, don't shut the door on it out of fear.  Someone may come along and love you for all that you are, manic depression not excluded.  I know I loved you for it, and here I am, nearly five years after our break-up, writing to you, when you've told me our love is dead, because you brought something so beautiful to my life that I never want it to be forgotten.  David, you have so much to offer another human being.  I beg of you; never lose sight of those gifts.  Don't let them be buried beneath the manic depression.  Cling to them in the midst of the Darkness, and someone will come along and look upon them as though they were illuminated by the sun.  

     And if no one should ever come, then be good to yourself.  Stop believing you're unworthy of love.  In my eyes, the worth of your soul is measured beyond all treasures of the earth.  Regard yourself with but a fraction of my sight, and live forever content in self-love.                 

 

May 3rd, 2008

 

      Four in the afternoon, and I've intermittently swam three one hour intervals.  Six feet tall, a hundred thirty eight pounds, I think I've done too much.  Walking home, I'm in a half delirium.  Suddenly, you are beside me, urging me on, promising you'll lie down beside me if I don't stop to rest.  "No sleeping in back alleys,' you say to me.  "Someone will stumble upon my Florida panther and put him in a zoo." 

 

Then, you are gone.  

 

The water is life; it is a conduit to you.  Tomorrow, I will again swim to the point of delirium, and if I am fortunate, you will again walk at my side.                     

 

March 16th, 2008

 

Five years hence, and I have not forgotten.  In remembrance of what would have been our fifth anniversary, I will light candles, reflect upon the love we shared, and recite a prayer for your well-being.

 

 

February 23rd, 2008 

 

I shall take our love into Death,

And should there be nothing in Death,

There shall be our love, and in our love, 

Death shall find Life incorruptible.  

 

February 23rd, 2008 

 

Whom but we shall remember our love,

And write of it, so that it lives beyond our time?

If we forget, we bury, and what grave has ever been dug

That could contain a love so great as ours?

What denial, perventure of force, has ever been made

That would eradicate so profound a truth?  

 

 

February 20th, 2008

 

Walking up a hill, I am walking towards my door.  A knock has sounded; I question aloud who is there, but no reply is forthcoming.  The wind is blowing, a sheet of ice around me.  I regret now having left my home.  I pull back the curtain that conceals my door, and you are there.  I slide the pane of glass that separates us, and I take you in my arms.  Walking up a hill, I am walking towards my door.  I will reach that door, and you will be standing there.  The promise of what can never be warms me, and I continue onward this desolate winter night.  To where?  I ask myself.  To that door, the one behind which you are standing.  Shall I ever reach it?  

 

No.  

 

Yet, my soul shall be purer for the journey.         

 

 

February 9th, 2008

 

The love of yesterday

Surmounts

The love of today;

The years amass,

Yet nothing is left behind;

Atrophy is banished,

And Love, 

Undiminished,

Remains.  

 

Unsent Letter, Written February 6th, 2008

 

This letter has nothing to do with our reuniting; you’ve stated your love for me is dead, and I’ll take your word on that.  I’m relieved you no longer hold me in your heart, for if our loved lived on in you as it lives on in me, and we were apart, as we are, your life would be a torment.  There wouldn’t be a day that dawned when you awoke to the sensation of half your soul missing.  I love you, and I would never wish such emptiness upon you.  In fact, I pray you find the love of your life, and that your relationship eclipses all memory of our time together.  

As for me, having been celibate since 2005, I can irrevocably state that my life began with you, and it will end with you.  That’s not a stalker sentiment; I don’t have to be with you or near you to love you.  It is not “I love David”; instead, this is a manifestation of the LOVE Plato described in “The Symposium”.  There is no I; there is no you.  This love is an entity independent of both of us, and it only has to live in one of us to exist as the profoundest of truths.  I am its sole vessel now, and as such, it is the guiding force of my existence.  It pulled me back from D.I.D.; it saved my soul from being devoured by Darkness, and it led me down a path of Light.  While you will not walk that path with me, you are at my side in spirit.  I laugh with you; I speak with you; I literally turn to you as I am walking down the street, and I smile, because you are with me.  Say every day of your life that your love for me is dead, and a russet-haired sprite at my side that is your very twin will reply that it lives.  

I wrote on April 2nd of 2003, “The world will become one of our own creation; at its core we shall lie our joy and then build great terraced walls to protect it from the invaders of a world willingly left behind.” I still exist in that world, and never shall I seek to walk beyond its walls.  For you to have moved beyond, I am content.  I am proud of all your accomplishments, which would not have been made manifest had you remained at my side.  Yet, the core of you will always reside with me.  

As clearly as I have ever seen anything, I turn now to a mischievous boy who has just gotten out of the shower, and is wet, rolling over my dry, freshly-made bed, grinning like an imp in spite of his bed-destroying sorriness, and I’m telling him that I am going to pounce on him, in true blonde Florida panther fashion, and luv up on him unmercifully as 'punishment'.  However, before I turn to that memory of you, lie down, wrap my heart around that boy I love and, I pray, dream of him tonight, I have to say what I initially wrote to say.  

If there is ever a time in your life when you need anything, call on me, and it will be yours.  If you are a thousand miles distant, and you can’t open a jar because of your rheumatoid arthritis, then I will leave everything in my life behind and be there just to open that jar.  If your eyesight worsens, and your world turns dark, then I will come, take your hand, and lead as your light.  If you are about to leave this life, then summon me, and I will marry you and live as content having been your husband for an hour as a man who has been wed for half a century.  If your life is ever low, and someone in your life claims to love you but is faltering in that regard, make them visit www.claytonrules.com/fordavid.htm (updated quite frequently) and tell them to take a lesson in being unconditionally devoted to you.   

David; all I ask of you is that you keep moving forward, higher, and make this the best life you can for yourself.  Sovereign of my heart, I love you, and I pray you reign over my soul for all my years to come.    

 

February 5th, 2008

 

My soul is in perpetual orbit around your own,

Which is as the sun is to the universe;

I circle, but am ever far, and as the years surmount,

The ellipsis grows ever wider;

Five years hence, and our bodies are leagues apart;

Yet our souls are near, and what is the flesh to the soul?

 

An ephemeral prison that is given but a season over its captive.

 

One bright day, this form shall fall, Truth shall be set free.

Laws of physics shall not matter, and our souls,

Though a universe apart, shall fly to one another,

And together form a star so bright

That the universe will turn from its worship of the sun

And bow to our love, just as I bow to you,

The order, the reason, and the center of my existence.

 

February 4th, 2008

 

Long since I had a dream

In which I was a told

A spirit cannot walk a divergent path;

Once a crossroads has been met,

It must turn back and walk

A never-wavering route. 

 

Long since I lost my life,

My path has been a fixed one;

It is our love, and were I

To diverge from its course,

 

I would no longer exist. 

 

 

February 2nd 2008

 

If, for but a fortnight, I could stand at your side and prove the restoration of my soul, gladly would I revoke the remainder of my years, and die content at the end of those days.  For I had rather die in love with, than languish in life without, you.  

 

My Soul Encased In Amber

 

The first night we made love, you wore boxers imprinted with snowflakes.  We awoke at dawn that late March morning to a blanket of snow upon the ground.  I thought you had made the snow fall; I imagined you were an angel who had brought purity to the earth, life to my soul.  How can I ever hope to move beyond such a dream?

 

                             

The Testament

 

Always is the extent to which I will love you.  My affection will not lessen with the hours or pass with the days.  It knows no season, save them all combined.  I awake; I sleep, and though all within and without may alter, my love for you remains an ever-fixed mark.  It is the only act of creation of my life that is of any relevance; were every last bit of my soul stripped away, if my love for you were left behind, then all that had mattered would remain. 

 

Boundless is my faith in you and your ability to rise above and triumph over all life’s hardships and woes.  You let nothing defeat or weaken you; you don’t look to the past or surrender to regret; you simply proceed to the grandeur that is inherently your own.  The trait is called being a survivor, and it is one over which you hold complete mastery.     

 

Coming is the appointed course, the hour of your dreams fulfilled.  For all the talent and self-will you possess, it is inevitable.  Ernest Dawson wrote, “They are not long, the days of wine and roses,” but he died too soon to have known this Rose, who will make wine out of adversity and immortal sentiments of the words he writes.  At such a young age, you are already a master of sentiment; for the monuments you sculpt of your words, I am certain your name will be forged like white-hot fire into the annals of literature.               

 

David S.R. is the man I will love until the breath leaves my body and the earth entombs my soul.  Whether another word or glance passes between us matters not, for I have known the uttermost of love, and time cannot weather, nor distance mar, that which is engraved, an unyielding and undying circle, into my soul.  Like a mortal staring into the face of God, all other thought or feeling is shattered to irrelevance before its presence. 

 

Faith is a substance unseen of which I carry an inexhaustible quantity.  I wake each day with the dream of your return, and I go to sleep each night with the imagined warmth of your arms around me.  I lie down in the barren ash of our love and will a spark to rise that burns with the fury of a lodestar newly born.  I look out across the chasm that lies between us, and I see that love returned, and though I pray with all my might that it would be closed, the chasm grows wider as the years grow longer.  Yet tomorrow, I will rise and will it shut once more.  This will be the ritual of my life until reason falls and the breath of life is swept from my lungs.    

 

Gratitude is what I feel towards the universe for allowing you to have been a part of my existence.  I feel blessed for having known you and to have been afforded the opportunity to bask in the warmth of your love, which was boundless and without flaw.  Until my dying day, I shall cherish the memories of waking up in your arms, of your caresses, your words, and your laughter.  Your love shall be a touchstone against which all others shall be measured and, ultimately, found lacking.    

 

Halcyon were the days in which you stood at my side.  My other half.  My soul.  My heart and my life.  All that I ever dreamt of cherishing or wanting.  So memorable were those days that as the years wear upon me, I live more in the past than the present, with no thought to a future unmade.  For where you are, there am I.  And though our circle remains unbroken, we walk it now at odds.  We pass as ghosts, like memories of a life that might have been.  You walk forward for the cause that all your best lies ahead; I walk in the past, for therein exists the only place where I will ever be able to touch you again.  Though therein am I content, for with every thought you are in my arms; yet, you are above and beyond me, more of a success than you would have been had you remained at my side.  Your love for me still exists, but it exists in a place where it can do you no harm, in the past. in those Halcyon days in which I shall linger for all my life to come. 

 

Ingenious is your art, your craft of word creation.  Like an Auden or Cummings, you shape words and elevate them to a higher art form.  You scripted for me the most beautiful sentiments of your affection, and I would not trade them for all the fortunes of the world.  I lie at night with them draped across my heart; they are as a string of diamonds that will never age or diminish with time.  They are my salvation, my treasure.  David, my life would be meaningless had you not blessed me with the most valuable gift one man may give another.  His love.   

 

Journey to a place that is higher than yourself.  Your Love lifted me from the depths, but I grew frightened of its beauty, and moored myself in the dark soil in which I had lain entombed before your presence in my life.  You offered a path away from shadow but, like Orpheus who looked back at Eurydice on their flight from Darkness, I could not believe that I was being led from my tomb.  I turned from the path of Light on which we walked, and you descended with me, down into a Darkness that was anathema to you.  You remained there, fighting for my soul while you forgot your own path, the one of ascent.  I kept you from it long enough, so recommence your journey now, beautiful one, and do not rest until your grandeur is known to all men.              

 

Lullabies are memories of you, lulling me to sleep at night.  Tomorrow, I’ll not wake to you, the man I love, but, for tonight and all other nights to come, the dream of us as one will shepherd me to to my sleep.  For all my days that are yet unwritten, I’ll revisit moments of our life until envious Death lifts them from me.  Then, there will be no wish to live, for an absence of you is an absence of life.     

 

Married is what we are in my dreams.  High on a cliff overlooking the Irish Sea, we exchange vows of holy writ and forge a union of our souls from words that affirm and bless.  I see the light in your eyes of purest blue, lapis against the emerald coastline that is all surrounding.  I watch as your tears fall, and they are rivers of contentment to the parched landscape of my heart.  I listen, an outcast spirit, to conversations we might have had; I walk with you upon autumnal paths that our feet will never touch.  We say ‘I love you’, though those words nevermore shall be.  In my dreams, we are wed, and for that reason I have come to despise awakening.    

 

Packed away and banished is what the Darkness sought to do with all the treasures you had given me.  I awoke one morning, and they were all gone.  You were gone.  One item, accounted one of my most valued possessions, remains.  It is a hand-written note that reads:

      Hi Panther, I’ve made up everything for you so you just have to hop in bed.  Well, you will have to undress first because I won’t be there to do it for you…*Mischievous Grin*…yet.  No need to leave the door open.  If you fall asleep, I’ll call the phone by the bed and get you to let me in.  Hope you enjoy sheets and blankets instead of your usual fare of a comforter.  There are blueberries and mini grapes in the fridge and cold drinks.  I’m lacking all other foods as of yet.  :o(  

       Feel free to use the computer or anything else.  (I use internet explorer for the net).  The pants and comics are my coming home gift for you.  I think you’ll look yummy in the pants (they’re tight)…and I know you’ll enjoy the comics. 

 

Love you bunches and see you soon


Your Phouka

David

 

    I was your husband.  The man you were coming home to.  That can’t be put in a box, given back, and forgotten.  Though the Darkness sought to rob me of my soul, the memories of our life remain.  My soul remains.  Our Love remains.                    

 

Silence would enforce indifference upon any love but ours.  For even though you will not lift your head to look at me, I know the truth of this prison from which all words are barred.  It is a sanctuary for your heart, and were I to enter therein, my presence would destroy the pact of separation we have forged.  Were but one breath to pass between us, we would be made one so completely as to never be apart again.  Such perfection cannot exist upon this earth, so the gods have made you deaf, never to hear my voice again.  

 

Silence reigns, but Love endures. 

 

With the torch of memory, I see us in a shaded glen, reading Shakespeare.  The sun is shining, and the air is thick with our laughter.  I walk from time to time in that walled garden, and you are always at my side.  We are kissing again in the moonlight, holding hands in the bright sun, or reading to one another while lying in the grass.  The shadows of who we used to be, of who we were meant to be but never shall be, are always with me, and I thank God for their persistent haunting.  For without them, the bleakness of my life would be unutterable.   

 

Years have passed since that sorrowful day when Elysian Fields were harvested, and the waters of Lethe swept between our souls.  I stand on the now barren soil where once we walked in Light, watching as you prosper on the opposite shore of Life.  You shine with such vitality and warmth that even the spirits of the dead surround you for cause of envy.  I was numbered among them, listlessly walking the earth, having forgotten the essence of life and love.  And lo, the miraculous day came when I was blessed with your touch.  David, your love was the greatest gift of my existence, and I shall always keep it close to my soul, where you shall forever be.

 

In Memory of You

 

Your laughter is the anchor of my peaceful repose and were I without it, I would be lost.  Let it echo and sing to me tonight as every other night, and should I not wake with the morn, let all men know an angel had sung me to my rest.

 

Lest The World Forget...

 

My darling boy,

I will live for you,

With you, in you,

For all the days of my life.

 

Ask that I deny it all you will,

But our love will not,

Nor shall not be,

Forgotten.  

 

The Whispers of Michael Fury (July 12th, 2007)


Ever wandering,

Ever near,

He whispers,

"Come lie with me

as we used to lie,

nevermore to leave

my side."

 

Lost soul,

in your name

my life I

Surrendered

long ago,

so plead no more

for that which

rests in the earth,

next to you,

 

never to rise again. 

Mon âme est blessée

My soul is wounded

By a love

That shall never die.

 

It is a wound

From which I

Could recover,

Though I would not

Seek remedy were

A cure set before me

And the promise of

Everlasting life

One of its effects.

 

For my soul is wounded

By a love

That never shall die,

And these wounds

Are all I have left

Of that boy’s

 

Laughter…

 

Words…

 

Heart.

 

And to cure these wounds,

Would cure me of that

Which I love most.

 

So, to Death shall I go

With a wounded soul…

And were Almighty God

To extend His hands

With promise of a cure,

I would cry out to be damned

And rather go down to Hell

With my heart and soul intact,

Then to be in Paradise

And lost without

That which I love most. 

 

My soul is wounded

By a love

That shall never die.

 

Celebration of Light

  

     On March sixteenth of 2003, I met David, the love of my life; six months later, I lost my way spiritually.  I fell prey to a Darkness of the soul, and David (with good reason) left me.  Each year at sunset on the anniversary of our first meeting, I light three hanging lanterns and position them near a window.  I enact this ritual to honor a love that shall sustain me for all my years.  The Light is symbolic of victory; it openly defies the Darkness, proclaiming that it has not won...that it shall never win.  

     On March sixteenth, light a candle and take a few minutes out of the night to reflect upon those you have lost.  Celebrate them as you would were they present at your side.  Laugh with them; rejoice with them.  The Darkness, whether born of death or distance, will dissipate, and they shall be with you once more.  

    

Move Beyond (5/25/2007)

 

Some have said 

to move on

 

to leave this place

 

to bar the door

and shut you 

Away

with the past.  

 

But I know that to

move beyond

our Love

would be to move 

beyond my soul.

 

And just as I am nothing

If not this soul,

I am nothing if not

our Love.  

 

Therefore,

it is resolved;

 

I shall not move 

beyond myself;

I shall not move 

beyond you.   

I shall not move

beyond our Love.

 

Semester's End (5/7/2007)

 

Will I ever again pass by

at random

and feel my heart race

and by your existence 

in this world

know that I am alive?

 

If you were to leave,

and I knew the path

would I follow

just to be near

and from afar

be reminded 

of all  that I have lost,

 

Of all that which I loved

and shall forever love?

 

The Hurricane (In remembrance of David and I making love during hurricane Isabelle)

 

Hail battered

Our sanctuary;

Rain pummeled

Our shelter;

And though the winds

Raged without,

Our bodies

Were one,

And would not

Be unmade. 

 

The Joy of Oneness

 

My soul speaks to you;

It laughs with you 

And smiles at the words 

It imagines you to say.

 

My soul has not been without you,

No, not for a day,

Even though you have 

Long been gone

And have no thought 

Of return.

 

February 20th, 2006

 

At dawn, my soul awakens,

And from its slumber brings

The implausible hope of reconciliation.

 

It waits for you and will not relent in its vigil.

  

February 8th, 2006

 

As I pass by on a city bus,

The sight of you

Makes my heart race

And ensures smiles

Of joyful remembrance

For the rest of the day.

 

March, 16, 2003 (the day I met David)

 

Time retreats to a more beautiful time,

When it seemed our love would last forever. 

Heaven could offer no greater reward

Than the perpetual reliving of that day,

Which surely was the happiest of my life. 

 

Promise

 

I will live for you for all the days of my life.

Order me to deny it all you will,

But our love will not, nor shall not,

Be forgotten.   

  

Crux

 

Your heart is kin with my own;

The blood of our life flows as one.

 

A red river that drowns all reason.

 

Downtown Mall (April 14, 2006)

 

As you pass by,

The echo of your

Laughter resonates,

And my life is

Enriched

By your presence

In this world.

 

An Unalterable Truth

 

     I loved you

For a thousand reasons

     Born new

With each passing day.

 

Key Largo Sunset-January 27th, 2006

 

We’re laughing, holding hands,

Free of judgment

And the chains of the past.

 

We simply are

As we always

Should have been… 

 

At peace.  

 

Still

With the world as witness I proclaim that I love you;

If you cannot or will not hear me,

It is the proclamation that holds the power. 

 

When you put your arms around me for the first time, it felt as though I had come home to a place where I would always be safe and loved...Like I had lived my whole life in anticipation of your touch.  If there were ever a portion of my soul I had been without, it was reclaimed with the first breath we shared.

  

The Letters

(Note:  My legal name at time was 'Sebastian'.)  

 

     There are many who dismiss the love between two men as being something purely sexual, but the letters exchanged between David and myself defy that belief.  In actuality, our letters comprise over 500 typed pages, but for brevity's sake I've included only a few in this compilation.   

 

       Early hours of Sunday, March 16th, 2003 we met for the first time.  I was dancing; you came from behind to wrap your arms around me.  It felt as though I had come home.  We kissed a kiss that lasted, literally, for hours.  A young woman approached us and said, “You’ve been making out forever; you must really be in love.” Soon thereafter, your friends parted us, stating it was time for you to leave.  Before you left, you wrote you name on my chest; I wrote my name on yours.  No words had passed between.  Silently, as though to not break an unspoken spell, we parted…but it was not goodbye.   

March 31st, 2006

  

My panther,

 

There I was walking along and I see a blue sweater, your

glasses, and a slightly dipped head. And there it was, my

Sebastian ;) Not only that but the sweet boy had a bag from 

Lindt in his hand.  I just knew when he emailed me that he'd

gone and done something wonderful sweet and foolish... You

just want me to be totally all over you don't you?

 

And there I was wearing your sweater because I wanted to

smell you all day today so it would be like you were still

there :) Btw, everyone loves your sweater, I received

several comments (even from strangers) and people were

looking me up and down all day. ;)

 

Thank you so much and I hope you sleep wonderfully having

splendid dreams of beautiful things.

 

Thinking of you *huge hugs*

David

 

April 1st, 2003

 

Bastian,

 

Our reality is a beautiful dream that has crossed the

barrier from imagination to The world as it Is, breathing

life and joy into my existence. I had a dream Saturday

night when I was with you that the candle flame blossomed

into an enormous lily imbued with milky effulgence. It

radiated light and pleasure; I find the same feelings

reflected in my heart when I think of you and consider the

beauty with which you have gifted me. How can it be real,

how can he _be_ but there you are when I least suspect to

encounter you.

 

I can only hope that I am truly bringing you the joy you

express, but it is so great that I cannot comprehend it. I

suppose that I must just consider how you affect me and

then I will understand its true depth.

 

I cannot write more, I stumble over my words in the flurry

of excitement.

 

Adieu,

David

 

April 2nd, 2003

 

My beautiful boy,

 

     I awoke this morning to thoughts of you…of us…and I smiled in my half-sleeping state of all that lay before us.  Echoes of our laughter drifted forth not forward from the past, but instead, backward from the future.  I thought of all the adventures we shall have, of how we shall make the most mundane of them into something extraordinary.  The world will become one of our own creation; at its core we shall lie our joy and then build great terraced walls to protect it from the invaders of a world willingly left behind.      When you put your arms around me for the first time, it felt as though I had come home to a place where I would always be safe and loved...Like I had lived my whole life in anticipation of your touch.  If there were ever a portion of my soul that I had been without, then surely I have found all that completes me in you.

 

Fondly,

Your Sebastian

 

April 2, 2003

 

My dear sweet boy,

 

I want to say that I really feel a sense of belonging with

you. I really feel that we connect on a deep soul level and

I feel so completely comfortable and safe in your presence.

I'm sure I sound like a horribly pitiful love-sick puppy

but I suppose that's what I am.

 

I have always prided myself in being a self-reliant and

strong, vocal individual who is committed to his passions

and voices his opinions. However, now that I have met you I

don't just want to continue shoving ahead alone through the

world... I want to share my joy and light with you.

 

For instance, I take great pleasure in telling you my

interests and what is going on. I feel that you really

share them with me and you help make it worthwhile. I have

felt uplifted and ecstatic ever since I spent last weekend

with you and your daily emails just serve to make my

feelings stronger.

 

I believe you are a truly unique and vibrant soul who

shares the same light that I do. I view myself as a wild

spirit and refuse to be tamed but when I am with you, I

feel that I remain as free as a breath of wind and I want

to carry you along with me. You lift me up, make me glad,

and let me be me.

 

At the same time, your spirit flows alongside me and weaves

its own beautiful path along which I allow myself to be

carried. I take great pleasure in sharing mutual loves and

excitement.

 

Granted, we have not even begun to experience the depth of

what is possible due to the brief time of our interaction

and some of this is my projected future dreams but I wanted

to express what I am thinking. You fill me with so much of

everything and I never want this new and thrilling

experience to end.

 

I fear I have gone on too long. I bid you adieu now in

anticipation of future pleasure.

 

Be well my beautiful prince,

yours, David

 

April 7, 2003

 

My sweetly-smiling boy,

 

The sound of your laughter, your giddiness, as we spoke on the phone yesterday afternoon was a delight.  You are my joy and my pride; thoughts of you fill my days from beginning to end.

 

Thank you, beautiful boy, for becoming a part of my life.

 

With all devotion,

Your Sebastian 

 

April 8, 2003

 

Good morning, my wonderful, sweet boy,

 

I miss even hours apart from you,

And days seem like years

Until I am reunited with you.

 

Adieu until we meet or talk again,

Your Phouka

 

April 9, 2003

 

Hey Bastian,

 

You have so recently come into my life and breathed into it a freshness and vitality. We share so many interests and you are (as you said) what seems to be the other half of my soul. I have never felt so complete and satisfied before.

You provide for me happiness, rest, peace and excitement. So many things that I cannot express properly in just a few

words. But you serve as part of the other half of my experience here. I have my work and my eventual dream but I

also have be beauty and happiness of just being here and now. I have my friends and my activities and I have you,

romance and passion and everything I could want in a man.

 

*Hugs and sweetness*

Your Phouka  (and boy)